last q's

Last questions

1.  I liked that for the most part I wasn’t babied and was left on my own after instructions were given to me

2.  I did not like that we had seating arrangement, although I got to know the people I was seated next to, it would have been better to surround myself with people I know

3.  No recommendations

4.   A highlight for this class was when we learned the basics of coding

5.  I did do my best in this class, listening to the lectures, updating my goals, and keeping up with my e-port

6.  I am reading my life planning goals daily, when I do not have enough time in the day ill read them double the next day

7.  I am being committed to CTR so I can be the best version of me

8.  I will tell others about DDOSing and how everything on the internet isn’t save

9.  I will always remember the coding part of the course

last lecture

Student Success Statement

“You will go far with CTR”

-Mr.Haymore

I believe this statement is true gold because without choosing what is right anytime in your life you will be ridding this world with lies and empty promises on who you could have become. Choosing the right would allow you to find your true potential and not be a shell of who you could have become. Everyone wants to succeed but no one wants to put the work in it, therefore if choosing the right will help you put in that work, it will be the best thing you have ever did.

mmhm

Become your best

12 principles of highly successful leaders

1. Be true to character
2. Use your imagination
3. Apply the power of knowledge
4. Never give up
5. Find peace and balance 
6. Live the golden rule
7. Build and maintain trust
8. Quick to listen slow to wrath 
9. Lead with vision
10. Manage with a plan

1.Being true to character means to amplify your inner self and ask yourself if the choices you are making reflecting on who you are as a person in the right way and in how other people see you.

2.Imagination is the beginning of creation. You imagine what you desire, you will what you imagine and at last you create what you will.

3.when you apply the power of knowledge to your skills that are used daily like language, you will be building your character and start to notice the rise in the amount of respect you are given in conversations

4.When you give up you are conditioning yourself to always give up and never put you all in a situation. When you stop trying, you will stop succeeding

5.Finding that balanced place in your head you can escape to in a worsening situation can lead any bad day into a good one. Peace will always go farther for you than hostility and will build up your character.

6.living the golden rule lies within your morals and what you think personally everyone should be doing out of the kindness within.

7.trust with a person will get you far and will give you the chance to let your feeling or other things out rather than bottling them up inside them.

8.

wap

Ten tips for being more truthful

1.   Make a commitment to tell the truth

2.   Tell someone about your commitment

1.   Think before you give a dishonest answer

4. Be careful of when and how you use exaggeration, sarcasm, or irony.

5. Be careful not to twist the truth or leave out part of it.
6. Dont indulge in little lies
7.watch out for silent lies
8.when you catch yourself lying, throw your mouth into reverse
9. Talk to yourself
10. Treat yourself when you tell the truth

1&2.To make a commitment is to make something that you will follow even when you don't want to do it anymore. And to make a commitment to tell the truth is to make one where no matter how much you want to lie you must not and you must confess the truth. By telling someone your commitment that person can help you to follow it so you don't brake that commitment. I will be telling my dad about my commitment and see what advice she can give me on not giving up.

3. This tip is ideal to do because once you give a dishonest answer to someone and they find out they can break relations with that individual.

4.when using these types of speeches you must know who you are talking to and if they will take it the wrong way or not. You may either hurt someones feeling or lose a friendship if these are not applied in a right way.

5.you should never spread out any rumors to anymore that's not right at all, but if you do tell the person something like tell them to stop with the rumors, if you hear something bad about your family make sure you tell them exactly what they said don't give off wrong information because you will be blamed for it and your friends will end up not talking to you and the rumor person

6.Enjoy the little white lies in life be open to anything that you are comfortable with. Don't over exaggerate on the little lies you tell others. Don't over exaggerate on the lies you say  it’s better to not say something at that person just stay quite it’s there problem not yours.

7.Being silent when you know the truth is exactly the same thing as telling a lie. When you are silent you are giving the impression that you do not either have the answer or information the certain someone is looking for.
8.When you notice yourself lying you must immediately tell the truth and take back your lie 
9.talking to yourself is the best way to calm down and gather your thoughts
10. When you treat yourself after telling the truth you will most likely want to keep telling the truth for the treat over and over again. Treating yourself can be as complex as talking yourself out or as simple as eating your favorite snack. 
Reflection:

learned

Summary
     What I learned in the khan academy is that everything is wired. Internet is wired throughout the world, even under oceans.

7goals

1. Clarity

"Have vision.Determine what you want to be, do or have in life. Have a sense of direction and know where you're going. If you do not have clear specific goals in life, you are doomed forever to work for others who do."

Clarity is the idea of being able to see everything in life in a clear perspective and to not have anything blind you to what is really there. Many people perceive to have clarity but are yet fooled to what is placed in front of them. For true clarity you have to look at everything not just at the things you think are hidden. That is what most people forget to do they are so busy looking for evidence or for something in many different places but don't look at what is right in front of there face and miss everything. So always look at the big picture not at the just at the little detail but at the whole things and that is what clarity is.

2. Competence

"If you commit to excellence, opportunities will always come your way. The harder you work, the better you get."

3. Concentration

"Make the best use of your time. Ask yourself is this the best use of my time? Before you start anything."

This key is showing us that by concentrating we can make better use of our time we spend each day and we can do more things at a faster rate if we concentrate on what we are doing. It is true that before you do anything you should ask yourself is this really worth my time if it is not then why do it when you can do something that actually is worth your time something that will help you in the future. This is a excellent concept to keep in mind because it can help us prioritize everything in our live and we can live a more complete and happy life instead of a boring one in where one mistake can cause us everything we have worked for.
4. Common Sense

Train your mind. Think things through. Listen to your intuition. Learn from setbacks.

To use common sense is to be able to think about something and think about the good and negative effects that it can bring. It is also to be able to learn from the mistakes you have made in the past and the mistakes you will make in the future. It is also to be able to concentrate on multiple things and still be able to choose the right thing to do.
6: Consideration

“The quality of your relationship with other people will determine your success in life”

“Developing the people skill you need to become a better communicator. Take courses in listening, speaking, etc.”

"If you were to learn one new word a day, within 5 years, you’ll be the best educated person in history."

Whether with a friend, family member, or anyone in general you have to be considerate to their thoughts, opinions, and feelings. Being considerate to these things will create a positive relationship. Keep in mind that you treat others how you want to be treated. If you are considerate with them then chances are that they will be considerate with you in return. You cannot just assume that everyone is going to have the same opinions that you have. Nor must you ever assume that someone is going to respond to something in a way that you expect them to. 

7. Consistency

"Dependable, steady predictable work is always superior to fast spurts of work."

"Be consistent in your relationships. You’re family, friends, your boss, your work. Be the person that people can depend upon. That if you say you'll do something you do it."

To be consistent you need to be very reliable in doing certain jobs and goals. To be very positive to your goal and never give up, that is being consistent. Also to be very open minded about what you do so that if you choose the thing that you like to do than you have more of a positive consistency rate.

8. Commitment

"No success is possible without commitment. The ability to commitment to you whole heartily is the basis of achieving all success.”

"Become totally absorbed in your work. Be totally committed."

 Commitment is the important because if you commit yourself to a goal then you are saying that you will follow through with that goal all the way to the end. It also shows us that a person is really into something if they are giving up their own personal time to achieve this goal. This is a important thing because many people in the real world don't have this they just do what they want when they want and that is why some people fail to achieve their goals. There are many things that a person can achieve if they commit to what they want to achieve.

 9: Courage

"The fear of failure is the single greatest reason for failure in life."

To have courage is to have the sense of being able to do something in order to have a positive outcome or a negative one. It is to be sure of what you're doing or to hope that it comes out the way you want it. It is to have the courage to do what you're afraid of or having the courage of willing to do something you know will be a good or bad outcome.

10. Confidence

"You only get confidence by doing things over and over again."

The meaning of this one is to have trial and error in order to know what you're doing wrong or how you're doing it wrong. It is to never give up and to always have confidence in yourself. To have the thought that if I give up it will lead to something that I will never experience. Also how if you have the confidence to do something then you have the confidence to do everything in your way and then you will never give up.

Reflection

          These 10 beneficial keys of personal power can be applied to any being and it will improve the lives of that individual in numerous ways. The key I have been applies constantly as of late is Courage. Courage has been helping me make decisions for myself and not following the norm stigma that society gives to everyone. As of the other 9 keys, I have yet to utilize them to their full potential.

habits

habit 1: be proactive

Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all other habits and that is why it comes first. it says,'I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passenger.'

"Recast your current problems into proactive goals."

-Suze Orman

Being proactive means you advance and make good from bad. you don't react to your problem you find a way to make the problem good. a proactive person is responsible and strong. they are people that don't make excuses. they rather solve a problem than stay stuck on it contemplating how it happened. they take their own course. they don't follow any crowd. they are focused and mind their own business. success is what a proactive person aims for. being proactive means you're building your success without relying on anyone else.

Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind

"Control your own destiny or someone else will."

-Jack Welch

This habit is good to have because you stay focused on what your ultimate goal is. When you don't know what you want you just go day by day making decisions that you don't know what they will lead up to. It may not be what you were aiming for or it could happen that you never find out what you were aiming for. So living with a goal, sticking to it, and keeping your vision for what you want in the end is a good habit. Keeping the end in mind is like being given a marshmallow, told that if you wait a while without eating the first marshmallow you will be given a second one. This is anticipated happiness. Which in the end tastes so much better.

habit 3: put first things first

"Organize and execute around priorities."

“A year from now you may wish you had started today.”

 - karen lamb

This habit is about not procrastinating and setting priorities. If someone puts you second. You are not important.By yourself putting someone second, they dont matter to you. The same principle applies to friendships and hobbies. Homework and school, job and all of those should be your number one's. After you’re done with the most important you cuold enjoy free time for having fun or yourself.  Although priorities are first, this shouldnt stop you from caring about yourself. Getting caught up in the craziness of your schedule sucks

habit 4: Think-Win-Win

 “It's the perfect definition of a settlement. Both parties didn't get what they wanted”

-David Greffen

This habit means that you're going to think about the situation and make an even deal or make the situation so that no one looses. this takes a lot of compromise. the quote means that both parties got even halves and since one didn't win the other one didn't. it doesn't mean necessarily that you will win every time it means you will find a middle ground to what you want. compromising with the other person.

Habit 5:

Seek Fist to understand then to be understood

"Diagnose before you prescribe."

This habit is telling us that we must understand what we are doing first before we can be understood. It is also saying that before a person can understand you, you have to understand them first. You can't rush into things without knowing what it is that you are doing then you can be understood by other people who share the same interest as you.

Habit 6:Synergize

"The whole is greater than the sum of its parts."

To synergize is to be able to find new solutions to old problems. It is also a habit that is does not happen on its own but with teamwork and with everybody solving the problems together. It is a great habit to have because you can get more things done with two people than you can just by yourself. It is also the idea that not just one single person can do everything that all tasks are done better when there are a multitude of people working together.

Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw

Four Dimensions of Self-Renewal: Physical, Mental, Spiritual, and Social/Emotional

This is saying to always be on the top of your game to never let yourself rust or decay to always stay ready for a moment’s notice. It is stating that as long as you keep yourself sharpened be it physically or mentally you are going to be fine in life because you will always be prepared for the twist and turns in life.

Reflection

I am willing to try the majority of the seven habits mainly because the habits I am planning on doing do not go against what I believe but the one I will not do are because I believe I can't do them or they go against my own believes. The only exception to this is habit seven since I am willing to do everything except sharping the spiritual aspect of myself. But the ones that I am planning on trying out are mainly going to be done here in school or at home some may even be tried out in public but at a later date since I have confidence issues.

mmhm

Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain

"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."

Once someone feels like they are being criticized they will stop looking for advice from you. making someone feel welcomed with you will make them want to talk to you. the keyword is embrace. make someone feel embraced even with all their flaws and extra baggage. in the quote we could see that together we could help each other fly.

“We are each of us angels with only one wing, and we can only fly by embracing one another.”

-Luciano De Crescenzo

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation

"The big secret in dealing with people"

"One of the most sincere forms of respect is actually listening to what another has to say."

-Bryant H. McGill

Giving people honest opinions make them want to respect you. they respect honesty and want acceptance from you. like in the quote, people want to be heard and be given back honesty. being untruthful to someone is disrespectful because you're letting them look dumb in front of others. like letting your best friend wear an outfit that is ridiculous instead of telling her the truth. when she finally realizes how dumb she looked she will blame you for letting her look like that and not being truthful.

Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.

"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely way."

To arouse in the person is to be interested in the other persons wants. To be observant in the person and their liking's. One way to not do this is to be ignorant or only rant on yourself rather than the other person. Also to always be the person who is always interested in the other person you are talking to or talking about. It is always better to bloat about the person rather than yourself.

One way I would put this into my daily life is to apply it to my friends and family and to put it to use everyday. To never be ignorant of others and to never be conceded.